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‘BEING WRONGED’ AND ANGER – I WANT YOUR STORY . . . .
  • Have you felt unfairly treated?
  • Have you felt discounted, ignored or put down?
  • Have your ideas been used by someone else and you didn’t get the credit?
  • Have you been betrayed?
  • What did you do?

I am exploring how women deal with anger based on being ‘wronged’. I am curious as to how unprocessed anger affects the brain and how this can go on to affect self-esteem and confidence, and how this then influences: judgement and decision making; ability to say ‘no’; quality of emotional and physical health.

Anna’s Story:

When my husband had an affair (aged 31) I embodied the word devastated. Thought the grief would kill me. I had weird reactions, such as wanting to report him to the police because it felt like a crime had happened; our marriage – a life contract – was broken and over, in just 2 years. We nearly reconciled but I was too angry to forgive him, plus he wanted a life with her really. I was angry that I wasn’t enough, angry he had changed in secret, angry he had found someone much more attractive.
For months I was weird, but I felt on the verge of victim-hood redefining the true me and I didn’t want to become that type of person. So I coached myself into positivity and a sort of live-and-let-live, and I moved on. Moved 200 miles away so I could block him out. I became happier, calmer, kinder, me again. I have rarely felt angry ever again. It’s like it used up my life quota of anger.

Sharing your story – Consider a time you felt you were  ‘wronged’
  1. Optional – your story of feeling wronged (200 words max)
  2. If you felt anger, how did you deal with it? (100 words max)
  3. Did your strategy work and if so why? (100 words max)
  4. If it didn’t work, why not? (100 words max)

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Please submit your story as soon as you feel ready – it takes courage to share and I respect the fact you have decided to take that step. Thank you.

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